- Pride and Prejudice
- Lord of the rings
- Jane Eyre- C Bronte
- Harry Potter
- To Kill a Mocking Bird
- The Bible
- Wuthering Heights
- 1984- G Orwell
- Animal Farm – Orwell
- His Dark Materials P Pulman
- Great Expectations C Dickens
- Little Women- Lousia May Alcott
- Tess of the D’ubervilles- Thomas Hardy
- Catch 22- J Heller
- Complete works of Shakespeare
- Rebecca- Daphne du Maurier
- The Hobbit
- Birdsong- Faulks
- The catcher in the Rye
- The hitchhikers guide to the galaxy
- The time traveller’s wife
- Middle match
- gone with the wind
the great gatsby
- Bleak House- Dickens
- Wart Peace- Tolstoy
- Brideshead revisited Waugh
- Crime and punishment0 Dostoyevky
- Grapes of wrath
- Alice in wonderland
- The wind in the willows
- David copperfield
- Anna Karemina
- The Chronical of Narnia
- Emma- Austen
- Persuasion – Austen
- Lion Witch and the Wardrobe
- The Kite runner
- Captain Corelins Mandolin – Berniere
- Memories of Geishen – Golden (A)
- Winnie the Pooh
- The Da Vinci Code- D Brown
- 100 years of Solitude G G Marquez
- A prayer for Owen meany
- The woman in white- W Collins
- Anee of Green Gables- LM Montanery
- Far from the Maddening Crowd- T Hardy
- The Handmaid’s tale- M Atwood
- Lord of the Flies- W Golding
- Attonement L McEwan
- Life of Pi
- Dune- F Herbert
There is so much that I need to say but I don’t even know how to go about it. I feel like an inadequate person; not genuine, not trustworthy; nothing.
I feel like I have no strengths, no identity. No morals. No values. How do I go about making values? I feel like I have become a massively changed person. With a solid friendship group I didn’t have to try making friends. I already had enough of a social life to satisfy myself. On reflection I’ve realised that the only thing I did was not make enough of an effort.
A current trend is that I don’t make an effort with people. I make promises and then don’t follow through with them. I make plans and then cancel. Why is this? Am I scared about making the wrong impression? I need to stop worrying about life but live it without the fear of other people judging me.
I feel like people are talking about me, don’t trust me and genuinely want to avoid me because I lack a social circle at the moment. I don’t know what to say to people.
Another thing I have realised I need to work on is my typing pace. I simply do not type fast enough to keep up with what is being said. I have a wonderful laptop but I cannot make the best use of it. I also lack the language required to write anything coherent let alone speak. Alas my communication verbal and written is shoddy quality. It’s a real shame that I have not managed to sort this out before university. I really don’t understand how this all happened. Things were so good and now so bad.
- signed up to touch typing classes
- asked to volunteer at the food bank on Saturdays _WHY??
- Need to start recording who I talk to and what I say!
I have so many formatives to do.
Also, major issue, people keep saying I look very beautiful and look gorgeous. How can I stop listening to them. It’s not healthy at all.
I’m eating more Marylands.
Ankita wants to take a gap year, do international business at masters level and go travelling.
Kaira also wants to take a year out to travel to
Aurelie is into environmental charities, played diplomacy, has done a lot of experimental things with guys in the past and as a result is much more mature than most.
went for a walk with ed and Ankita, I feel like I am not at their level. Boarding school or no?
..A big screen classic.
Went to Japanese festival with old primary school friend T in Trafalger Square.
Tried my hand at Japanese Calligraphy. Jelly seems to be a popular dessert choice: Jelly and red kidney bean paste (Yokan) was delicious, a savory flavour for persons with a less than sweet tooth.
Went to the BFI to see Miller’s Crossing, after trying to see El Cercle. Latter was fully booked but we ended up eating out at Wagas and touring the Tate.
This means SHINE! SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND!
For the first time in my life I signed up to an organised 10km run.
I signed up because I was influenced by a *stranger*, who will be going to Dhm, said he was doing the North Run (21km/13.1miles). I replied I was doing a 10km and immediately began looking for one.
On reflection, being so vulnerable to other people’s activities concerns me. I need to be my own individual.
Who LEARNS from others, but does not copy.
I need to start directing my own life. I’m 18.
I need to start adult.
I need to share my activities with my friends and family more widely.
As I ran, I noticed I was going at my own pace. Fast enough to feel the burn but slow enough to finish the race. I only trained the night before. 9.6km at 10.30pm on 23-09-2017. Not because I didn’t want to train, but because the arch of my right foot feels painful. As a result I am going to a podiatrist on tuesday to figure something out.
It felt amazing to run again.
Through the forest, the confer trunks blocking all but rays of sunlight that fell onto the path, creating a golden carpet. Silence.
Time was 1:10:11 for 10km. There’s only one way forward. UP!
I want to run 20km this time next year. LET’S do this!!
Sept 2017- 10km Surrey Hills – 1:10:11 (Target 1:15:00)
5 November – 10km MoRun —https://www.mo-running.com/newcastle– registration closes 31 October !!
Dec 2017- 15km
June 2018- 21km (11 June) – 10km (19 June) HALF MARATHON Continue reading “10km Surrey Hills 24 Sept 2017”
People are always going to say no.
Not to you but to change.
Humans naturally want to stay in stasis.
We want to feel safe.
Unless we are motivated from some other factor, they don’t want change.
When you suggest something spontaneously
a small thing. Something fun.
They might say no, labelling it as ridiculous, stupid or a waste of time.
Don’t live the lie that life is perfect.
They might be right. Maybe it is a waste of time.
Listen to them if your suggestion is a serious plan.
But an 18 year old building a poor sandcastle in London Southbank?
“Oh my that’s so stupid.”
Secretly it makes them laugh.
It forms stories, memories.
People like to be around people who are not afraid to try new things.
Who make them laugh.
No-one is living your life for you.
Make it a story. Build a plot. Build character.
Make life worth it.
I don’t want to tell my parents how I am feeling because I don’t want to make my mom anymore anxious than she already does. I worry about her. She doesn’t go out in fear of the house being burgled or a fatal event happening in london or our town. She goes to pilates twice a week and lipreading once a week. Struggles with her hearing, with comprehension and articulating her thoughts. When I talk to her, our conversation concerns our immediate situation. Food. Weather. What she’s cooking for dinner. What she used to do when she was a kid. Empty topics. I don’t know what to talk about with her because whenever I begin a story, it soon turns to what she has experienced. One sided. Our conversation usually contains her anecdotes that I have heard before, or phrases beginning with”that’s why.” It’s an explanatory discussion. Tries to justify her actions. It feels like I don’t “get” her, or even worse, she doesn’t “get” me
As a daughter I fear I am learning from her. I feel less able to talk about extrapolated topics. Have fun chats. Humorous. Light hearted. She doesn’t understand banter so this simply doesn’t happen in my life unless I’m with friends.
I cut them all off.
It’s true. I don’t tell her what happens in my life.
We live alone.
This is probably the most striking lessons I have learnt during the last few months.
Definitely one of the hardest.
Throughout primary school and secondary school, our teachers encourage us. Our parents provide us with support. They want us to succeed, to give us the strongest start in life. At some point we have to begin our own lives. We have to find a way to encourage ourselves. Ultimately, we live alone.
We live our own lives. We share our stories of life with family and friends since they don’t experience our lives first hand. This makes oral story telling so vital. If we are unable to share our memories, life lessons and skills engagingly, they lose interest. Granted they still love us, but we lose an element of social interaction.
At some point the scaffolding that has been there to support us though younger stages of development will be removed. But if, for some reason, we have cheated the system to achieve high marks, appear popular or be momentarily satisfied, the removal of the scaffolding is all the harder.
Perhaps this triggers the onset of depression during the late teens. Particularly during high achievers. Relatively its easy to gain full marks: Find the syllabus. Find a revision guide. Cram. 95%. A*.
I’ve learnt that this is toxic for future development. This method does not stimulate interest, creative thinking or engagement; skills that are unbelievably vital in other areas of life. But for those who have depended on this method soon hit a brick wall at A level/ IB/ university.
- We haven’t LEARNT how to sustain interest in a course.
- We haven’t LEARNT how to revise methodically.
- We haven’t LEARNT how to learn WITHOUT the provision of information in a neat concise booklet.
- We haven’t LEARNT how to summarise new information.
- We need to learn how to USE our knowledge rather than RECALL it.
While “blaming” our parents or teachers for not giving us this skill is attractive, now it is our turn to help ourselves. For how can we expect others to help us if we are too lazy to help ourselves? We are aware that we lack self motivation or self discipline. Thus it is our duty to fulfil our own ambitions.
I do not mean that we shouldn’t seek help from other people. Only that we must not depend on them to give us what we need. They have lives too.
We live alone.
Who we define ourselves is due to our own choices.
There is always a choice.
Choose your own identity.
Don’t let it be chosen for you.